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Chat Me Up, Or Not…

You’re in a club/bar/other location. You’ve spotted someone who has taken your fancy. Glances have been exchanged and their body language is an invitation to approach. You walk towards them, trying to come up with a good opening line, and then… Yes, we’re talking chat ups. Do you have a tried and tested chat-up line? Read More

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Safe Dating

The questions for this week’s Food for Thought Friday are as follows: So, you’re on a date and it’s going well; very well… The chemistry is there, the attraction is there. All that both of you really want to do at this point is take it somewhere private and move things up to the next Read More

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Let’s Talk About Sex

Of course this blog is all about sex and talking about it, but with this week’s question for Food for Thought Friday, I am focusing on one specific part of talking about sex. The question is: Are you comfortable discussing sex with your partner? Do you have the confidence to ask for what you like/want? Read More

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First Sexual Act

Trigger warning: if you are a victim of (child) abuse, you might not want to read this.   What was the first overtly sexual act you performed on someone else or had performed on you? How did you feel about it afterwards?   Many of my ‘firsts’ were things that happened to me, that were Read More