Let’s Talk About Sex

Of course this blog is all about sex and talking about it, but with this week’s question for Food for Thought Friday, I am focusing on one specific part of talking about sex. The question is: Are you comfortable discussing sex with your partner? Do you have the confidence to ask for what you like/want? Read More


First Sexual Act

Trigger warning: if you are a victim of (child) abuse, you might not want to read this.   What was the first overtly sexual act you performed on someone else or had performed on you? How did you feel about it afterwards?   Many of my ‘firsts’ were things that happened to me, that were Read More

Erotic massage

The Numbers Game

Do you need or expect to know how many previous sexual encounters your current sexual partner has had? Is it any of your business?   No, it’s none of my business. This is the answer I give because of the situation I am in. I’m married to Master T and we engage in sexual encounters Read More


The Ties That Bind

This is the fourth week of the Food for Thought Friday meme and I was quite excited when I saw the question of the week: So, for this week “Food For Thought Friday”, we are turning our attention to the subject of Fuck Buddies/Friends with Benefits. Is it possible to have a long-term “no-strings” sexual Read More


Punishment or Pleasure

This week’s question for the Food for Thought meme is as follows: Within the D/s community, there are times when it is necessary for a Dom to administer a corrective spanking/caning/thrashing. Our question this week, however is directed to those on the receiving ends of such punishments. Do you consider a corrective spanking/caning/thrashing as a Read More