Under Wraps

Food for Thought Friday

I love being naked and to feel my soft skin as my hand wanders down my body, but there is something about being dressed – whether fully or partially – that is a lot sexier than being naked. This week’s prompt for Food for Thought Friday has gotten me thinking about what I like.

What do you wear when you want to feel sexy/desirable?

I love wearing a dress. A tight dress. A dress that accentuates my body, my curves.

But…

At this moment I don’t like it that much. You see, I have gained a lot of weight over the past year, ever since mom didn’t come home anymore and was in and out of hospital, and I haven’t stopped gaining either. This means that I sometimes just don’t like the curves being accentuated, but when I have a good day, I don’t mind so much. It’s a fine line…

net tights
A photo I tweeted while at the bar…

On the days I do feel good, I prefer to wear a dress, tights and heels. Always heels. Never pants. I do own two pairs of denims and one other pair of pants, but those are only for when we go out with our cameras. Then I also wear sport shoes, because walking around on heels in the bushes or on the beach is totally out of the question. I have to think about my old ankles, ya’know!

My dresses are never long. Actually, all of them end above the knee, and preferably a couple of centimeters above the knee. I love when I sit at a bar and catch a glance from a man or woman when they look at the hem of my dress. That tends to make me feel even sexier. Recently I have started to combine a bit of my sexy with my ‘everyday’ clothes. Wearing a dress that I would also wear to work and then putting on tights (pantyhose) and over that a pair of fishnet tights… well believe me, those make me feel sexy AND they draw quite some attention!

What is the sexiest thing a member of the opposite sex can wear?

The sexiest thing to me is when their clothes are neat and clean, no matter what they wear. One thing I don’t like is when someone walks around with dirty jeans or tracksuits or even when they were denims that are torn. Those just don’t do it for me. I really appreciate a man in a suit (or a uniform), but a man in denims and a shirt is good enough for me too, as long as they look like they take care of themselves.

Oh and, pants should always be long! I know in summer men tend to wear shorter pants and that’s okay, but it’s not sexy at all. Just my opinion.

What, if anything, is that one item of clothing/footwear that really does it for you?

I don’t think I have one item of clothing or footwear that really does it for me. I have a couple of dresses I wear over and over and I have one pair of boots and one pair of shoes I wear almost every day, but it’s not because they make me feel so sexy, but because they are gentle on my feet (I told you, old ankles!). Also, the dresses I wear because they are nice and feel comfortable and it’s only when I deliberately pair them with something else (like wearing a maximizer bra to really make my tits stand out or the mentioned fishnets) that I tend to look at them differently than when I wear them to work.

In essence it’s not only the clothing that ‘does it’ for me, but it’s always a combination the clothing, my mood, where we are and who we are with.

© Rebel’s Notes

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3 thoughts on “Under Wraps

  1. Angelica Fetishes says:

    I think it’s important to feel sexy no matter your weight, shape or stature. It’s still important to feel sexy even when you are working to decrease the weight to be healthy or feel differently about oneself that enhances what your already feeling. I too gain weight over the year due to stress. It has become hard to carry around. So I’m on a mission to lose it. Just like you I love the form fitting clothing. It’s just something about it that heightens my sexual nature.
    I think it’s important to always love the person you are, even when your making changes on the outside and within.

  2. Brilliant… And I’ve never thought of putting fishnets over plain tights but it makes sense! I love fishnets but hate the milk bottle legs I have peeking out underneath the holes. In the bedroom I don’t worry about it obviously but I don’t wear them out and about because of it. I’ll definitely be giving this a go!

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