Kinky Christmas… or not…

Winter Wonderland

Every year when the Christmas time draws nearer, I start to drag my feet. I love the shorter winter days, even when they are grey with clouds or fog, but one thing I hate about Christmas are the things you have to do. It’s expected that everyone celebrate Christmas together. Now don’t get me wrong: I love to have my mom and kids here and I love when all of us eat together and have a good time, but I don’t want to feel like I HAVE to do it. I want to do it because I WANT to do it.

And still, even though I feel like this and have felt like this for years… we celebrate Christmas together the same way we have done for the last twelve years. Things have changed though, over the years. We always had a big Christmas tree and a Christmas town with moving skaters and a water wheel and more on the dresser. In 2012 and 2013 we had no Christmas decorations at all. In 2014 I took some Christmas decorations from the attic – two garlands with lights, one each for the dresser and the TV cabinet, two small Christmas trees and a scale with Christmas balls and tinsel. That’s it. It’s more than enough and as much as I can handle and it makes our house look Christmas-sy.

There will come a time – in a few years and after all the kids have left the house – that Master T and I will change the way we celebrate Christmas. We are talking about it now: how we would check into a hotel and just do what we want to do – eat, fuck, sleep, repeat. We might even invite others to join us, or we might not. One thing is for sure: our Christmases will be a lot more kinky than they are now.

For now, we have to do with what we have. And you know what? It’s wonderful. I love having my mom and kids around and I love sharing good food with them. I love spoiling my grandkids with presents and listening to them laughing and having fun. Being together in love and peace always makes me feel on top of the world and when I feel on top of the world, I feel beautiful and sexy and feeling that, many times flow over into being horny. I dress up for Christmas and ‘forget’ to wear my knickers, which of course I whisper in Master T’s ear so he’s aware of it all day.

That’s on the day itself, but during the preceding weeks, once I have put up the Christmas decorations on 6 December (always then, never before), I start thinking about the filthy images we can make. I guess I make the same kind of photos every year, but even then it’s fun and sexy to do.

The bottom line is that Christmas doesn’t specifically inspires sexy thoughts, but feeling the love of the season definitely has a positive influence on me. In the end it’s what YOU make of Christmas that’s important. If you want a quiet Christmas, make it happen, but if you want to be with family, make sure you are. And, if you want to spend Christmas together with the love of your life and no one else, you should make that happen too.

Christmas is a time for love, peace and happiness with a healthy dose of sex(iness) added to it!

Merry Christmas Everyone!

Winter Wonderland
I still adore this image of the train exiting the ‘tunnel’ into a Winter Wonderland

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3 thoughts on “Kinky Christmas… or not…

  1. The short days don’t work for me, I need daylight for my mood to improve. So this time of year I find a struggle not to mention the pressure, for that reason we tend to just spend the day by ourselves. You would assume this mean we have a kinky Christmas, however, that isn’t the case it seems other things just take over!

  2. I am totally with you on the Christmas decorations and taking pictures. I look forward to it every year and enjoy coming up with different images. I don’t think it will ever get boring to me. As for christmas itself I feel very similar to you. One year we had Christmas just me and Michael and it was blissful but I do like sharing the day with my kids too. So I guess I am a bit torn on the actual day itself

    Mollyxxx

  3. Wonderful post Marie . . . and so much of what you write here is true for me and, hopefully, everyone really.
    Have a lovely, peaceful and happy Christmas . . . with hopefully a little free-time for some kinkyness as well !!!
    Best, best wishes from London.
    Xxx – K

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