I is for Impact Play & More

For this year’s A-Z Challenge I decided to focus on things that I have come across during our 5 years of active kink, and share my experiences and things I have learned, my opinion or things I am curious about. In each post I am using an image that has been used on my blog before, with a link to the original post.

Continued from… H is for Humiliation & More

Impact Play

Impact play? Yes! We don’t get to this nearly enough, because of kids at home and I tell you, there’s always at least one kid at home! Therefore, for impact play, we have to wait until we are in a hotel, or we have to postpone this for at least five years and then do it here at home. Of course the last is ridiculous, which means we normally engage in impact play when we are in a hotel. When we do impact play, almost anything goes from being spanked by his hand, to using a flogger, a paddle, a whip or a cane. My favorite impact implement definitely is the vampire paddle or vampire gloves. They deliver an amazing feeling and I love the sight of the blood afterwards. A cane definitely is my least favorite implement for impact play.

Ice Play

Original post: Temperature Play
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We haven’t played with ice that much, but when we do it’s really enjoyable. A word of warning: if you engage in ice play, never, but never use the ice directly from the freezer. You will be sorry!

What we normally do is to put the ice cubes in a bowl and allow it to start melting before we use it for the first time. This way I know for sure that the ice won’t get stuck to my sensitive bits. Even though I know this is not recommended, I love the feeling of the cold ice deep in my pussy, and even better when someone fucks me while I have the ice inside me. It’s quite an interesting and exciting feeling when you have a warm cock inside you and cold water running out of you.

Another way to do ice play is to put your glass or steel dildos in the freezer and then play with it, but be careful with using these directly from the freezer too!


This is something I have no experience with, but I am curious about it, in combination with kidnapping. Roleplaying is not something I am into, but a girl can dream, right? And here I mean dreaming about being kidnapped and interrogated, and of course punished because I give the wrong answers…

To be continued… J is for Just do it!

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