B is for Bondage & More

For this year’s A-Z Challenge I decided to focus on things that I have come across during our 5 years of active kink, and share my experiences and things I have learned, my opinion or things I am curious about. In each post I am using an image that has been used on my blog before, with a link to the original post.

Continued from… A is for Anal & More

Bondage

We are totally not into bondage, not with rope anyway. However, I have experienced rope bondage quite a couple of times and I love the feeling of rope on my skin, the feeling of being restricted and handing over all control. There is something magical about it. Master T has tried many times to tie me with rope, but it’s just not his thing. Then we discovered bondage tape and to us this was the solution. It might not be pretty, but it’s damn effective!

Breath Play

Yesterday I touched on asphyxiation and I also mentioned breath play. Now where I am not into having my oxygen cut off entirely, I love the feeling of Master T’s hand on my throat, the way he pushes down on me and restricts my breathing. He always knows just where to stop, not to make me go into a panic, but maybe more important, he knows when to start. You see, if we are just starting to ‘play’, breath play is not something I want, but the hornier I get, the more I give of myself, the more I surrender and the more I long for him to put his hand on my throat. It heightens my senses. It’s a careful balance he has to maintain, as cutting off my breath just a bit too much will totally kill the mood.

Blood Play

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Original post: As red as…
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Do we engage in blood play? Oh yes, we do engage in blood play! I had never thought I would love seeing myself bleed as much as I do. Mostly it’s the vampire paddle that punctures the skin on my behind and makes me bleed, but Master T has also cut me a couple of times with a Swiss army knife. A couple of months ago he was looking at buying a new knife, but up to now he still hasn’t. Soon, I hope, as I have seen something that totally intrigues me… a spider web cut onto someone’s behind. It’s gorgeous! I studied the image and all I could think of is: I want that too!

To be continued… C is for Consent & More

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10 thoughts on “B is for Bondage & More

  1. I love being tied down but have never been bound with rope. I’m pretty certain I would enjoy it though.
    I have asthma and get quite anxious when there is a gag or hand about my throat. There have been times that I quite enjoyed the bit of breath play/choking though. As you said, it is all about the timing.
    Blood doesn’t turn me on in any way. Well, actually period play does, but that’s a different kind of play.
    I was surprised I didn’t see bruises on your list. Maybe that’s because it is a result of different kinds of play rather than it’s own beast.

    Stella
    Xxx

    • Marie Rebelle says:

      When I first read your comment I thought: damn! I forgot bruises. I love bruises and love looking at them over and over. I should have included it here 😉

  2. When I was with my ex, I really enjoyed softer types of bondage, like faux-silk ropes, handcuffs, and scarves. As someone prone to panic attacks, and now diagnosed with asthma as well, I don’t think breath play would be the best thing for me!

  3. I love tying the knots, so unlike you and M. T. we are into bondage some. Not the high school Japanese stuff, mind you. But it’s exciting to us. Just wondering why tape? I will look at your old posts some, maybe find there answer…
    Breath play scares the hell out of me, like I said yesterday… Breath is not to play with. You need it to stay alive. A hand on the throat is not breath play, I think. Well, why not? Mmmm, it is play… OK. Breath play.
    Blood play. With respect with your views on blood play, it’s not in our repertoire either. I don’t want to scar my Wanita’s skin, not even with vampire gloves or paddle. Each to his or her own, Rebel. If you both like it, that is wonderful and it’s quite sensation play, isn’t it? I am very curious how your master takes care of afterplay after such intense sessions…

    Always ready to learn,
    Glad I stopped by,

    Han

    • Marie Rebelle says:

      Tape just happened to come into play when I received it from a sex shop to test. Before that we’ve always been trying it with rope.

  4. These lists are not for the faint of heart – and I love it! I really appreciate how you are describing what many people think of as dark and dangerous fetishes, and showing them for what they really are – pleasure play! Some of these things might not be for everyone, but in a room with two (or more) consenting adults…have at ‘er!

    Looking forward to Monday!

  5. More fascinating thoughts and ideas, never considered blood play, but that bum pic made a certain part of my anatomy twitch

    Can’t wait for more

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