CFNM = Clothed Female Naked Male
I had to read this a couple of times to really understand what it meant, as the term CFNM is totally unfamiliar to me. It took a second or two to sink in before an image came to mind.
I saw myself, fully dressed and wearing high heels. I was standing with my foot resting on a naked, whimpering male lying on the floor.
This image actually made me giggle and at the same time it made me feel very uncomfortable. Why? Because I know that something like this would never happen, that I would never be able to stand over a male in such a dominant position. I would much rather be the naked one, on the floor, feeling the heavy boot of a man keeping me in place, or even feeling the sharp, pointy heel of a female keeping me where she wants me.
Of course I was quite curious to know more about CFNM and as I did in the past with topics that were unknown or rather new to me, I googled. In the intro of this week’s KOTW, I.G. Frederick already mentioned that there isn’t enough realistic information about CFNM out there. I must say, most of the sites I found showed photos of clothed females (always more than one) and one or more naked men. The scenes were either in a classroom, an office, a restaurant setting, a gym or at the doctors. The photos I have seen did nothing to turn me on. In fact, I just quickly scrolled through two websites and then did not click any other links, except if I thought that it might have some information on it.
So what does Wikipedia say about CFNM?
Clothed female, naked (or nude) male (sometimes abbreviated to CFNM) is a genre of erotica featuring one or more nude men and one or more clothed women. It is sometimes described as a sexual fantasy, by women or men, depicting an exhibitionist or physique worship scenario. One-sided male nudity can also arise when a male disrobes for the sexual pleasure of a woman or women, such as in a BDSM or other sexual activity, as an indication of sexual submission, or as part of a male striptease.
I.G. Frederick stated that CFNM:
- may or may not demonstrate a woman’s power over a man;
- may or may not be part of a Dominant/submissive relationship;
- may or may not allow a woman to objectify a male’s body;
- may or may not include humiliation play;
- may or may not satisfy a male’s exhibitionism;
- may or may not involve sexual contact;
- may or may not have the woman dress up in fetish wear and heels.
For those of you who have followed this blog it will be very clear that CFNM is not my kink. However, if I turn it around and think of myself being the only naked female in a room with several clothed men, not that is an entirely different story. The thought of a situation like that really excites me, and brings other thoughts to mind, such as being fucked by all those men… but that then is an entirely different kink!
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