Cuckoldry

After the post I have done on different kinds of relationships, some more ideas crossed my mind. Back in the beginning days of my Twitter ‘career’, I came across the term ‘cuckold’. It was someone who followed me online and following his blog I learned that cuckold is a man who is forced to watch his wife have sex with another man.

However, recently I saw a man referring to himself as being cuckold. He was the one promoting his wife to others and wanting to see her have sex with other men. From what I have seen in his conversations with others and the conversations I had with him, he was definitely not forced to watch her, but he promoted his wife because he wanted to watch her have sex with other men.

This thought stopped me in my tracks. Did this mean that Master T was a cuckold too, because He likes to watch when other men have sex with me? I decided to search for some information, as I just could not see Him as a cuckold.

So, what is the definition of a cuckold or cuckoldry?

According to Wikipedia:

Cuckold historically referred to a husband with an adulterous wife and is still often used with this meaning.

According to the Urban Dictionary:

A sexually inadequate husband who accepts his wife’s pussy is her solely property and she alone decides which men she will fuck,even if it means denying her husband. His only access to her pussy is to clean it of the ejaculate of males she chooses to fuck.

A submissive husband with a wife who takes on alpha-male lovers whereby the wife’s sexual pleasures become the husband’s vicarious sexual pleasures and experiences.

A man who gains sexual pleasure in the knowledge that his wife has made love or is making love to other men. Cuckolds are usually submissive, often have a small penis, suffer from premature ejaculation, ‘enjoy’ sexual humiliation and are rarely able to satisfy their wives.

Analyzing these different quotes, I wondered whether I could be seen as an adulterous wife because I am having sex with other men. I guess I could, but is it still adultery if my Husband is with me at all times and encourages me and expects of me to have sex with others?

Master T is not sexually inadequate and my pussy is not my property, but His. He decides what happens to and with it. Also, Master T is clearly not submissive and I am not the one who decides which men will be allowed to fuck me.

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French satire on cuckoldry
(Source: Wikipedia)

None of the above quotes apply to Master T, so there is no way I can refer to him as being cuckold. He likes to share me with others, likes to see how others enjoy using my body and He finds mutual pleasure in that. I guess cuckold is not the correct word to describe Master T, but kinky definitely is. Or like Master T likes to say: He has a wicked mind. And yes, He has.

To get back to cuckoldry, from what I could find it seems the most accepted definition of cuckold is a submissive husband who likes to be forced to watch his wife have sex with other men. Cuckoldry is a kink entirely in itself and it does not mean that cuckold men are in a relationship where they are unhappy. It just means that they are living out their fantasies the way many of us are too.

One more link in which modern day cuckoldry is described, this time in a swingers setting. After reading this, I knew for sure that cuckold is one description that does not fit Master T!

As always, I would love to hear your thoughts on this subject.

© Rebel’s Notes

6 thoughts on “Cuckoldry

  1. Hey Rebel,

    So, I think that “Cuckold” has a flexible definition. If you read our stories, you’ll see that Lola is definitely a “hotwife” and, since I often accompany her on her sexcapades with other men, then I am in a “cuckold” position. But it’s not as simple as that or the definitions you posted above. It’s more of an ‘half-way open relationship’ where she gets to play and I get to enjoy seeing other men (and women) enjoy her. It works for both of us and it has nothing to do with sexual inadequacy or submissiveness.
    But thanks, as always, for the post.
    HH

    • Hi HH,
      Many thanks for your interesting comment.
      I think that the different definitions for cuckold might have evolved over time and in our modern society. I cannot imagine that cuckold always has something to do with sexual inadequacy. It’s become a kink in itself. I think the reason I cannot think of Master T as a cuckold is because me having sex with other men while He watches comes from the position that he expects me to have sex with others because he wants to watch.
      And in the end it’s all about mutual enjoyment, no matter how we get to the point, right?
      Rebel xox

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