Recently a good friend of mine placed a piece of text on her Tumblr and it perked my interest. The text has been written by a Dom on Fetlife, but unfortunately I cannot reach his Fetlife profile anymore. Therefore, for now, I prefer not to mention his name here, but I still want to place the text and ask your opinions on this:
I can see this pissing a lot of people off. To all of them, kiss my ass.
This is also a drunken rant because I’m tired of hearing bullshit and explaining stupid things. So to those of you who read and see typos or other grammatical errors, I apologize.
Any asshole can yell. Anyone can tie someone up. Anyone can have rough sex and slap someone around or get rough. Being a Dom has nothing to do with that. Now granted, everyone is different and every relationship is as well. If all you do for someone is spank their ass, flog them, blindfold them and fuck their throats and you are both happy with that, great! More power to you.
But being a Dom means, at least to me, caring for someone subservient to me! YES I SAID CARING! Their minds, hearts, spirits and BODIES! Yes I even care about their body! A Dom should be just as much IN SERVICE to their subs as their subs are to them. If not more so! A Dom should lead, inspire and set the example. They should guide, motivate, teach and help their sub be more successful! And if you are failing in that area, SAY YOU ARE SORRY AND UNFUCK YOURSELF!!!!
Yes a Dom can say they are sorry and/ or wrong! We do fuck up too! I know, it seems to be blasphemy and unheard of, but it’s true. After all, if you can’t see when you make a mistake and fix yourself, then how can you fix or help someone else? If you claim to be a Dom then people should be in a better place after meeting you not just more bruised! Inside or out. I have literally had people on here ask me if I am really a Dom because i don’t demand they call me Sir upon first contact, or even ask why half of their message is Sir this and Master that. Those titles serve their purpose and have their place. But they should also be EARNED. Not because someone demands it or claims some bullshit title on the drop down box, but because someone DESERVES it!
So yes. I AM A DOM AND I AM HERE TO SERVE. Maybe not everyone. I will help anyone i can, but i am here to serve the sub that i am LUCKY enough to call mine….
I am looking forward to your opinions…
© Rebel’s Notes