Panties. I love beautiful panties. I own a ton of them… red, blue, yellow, green, purple, pink… and black. Lots of black. But…. I rarely wear them. I have about 10 basic pairs of panties, which I wear a lot more than I wear my sexy, beautiful panties. A couple of months ago I had a 10-day punishment where I was not allowed to wear any underwear – no bra, no panties. Since then I have almost completely stopped wearing panties. When I wear a dress or a skirt (which I mostly do) I do not wear any panties. Only when I wear pants, I put on one of my basic panties to protect my tender bits from the seams inside the pants. Whether I will wear panties under skirts and dresses when and if ever the weather gets better, remains to be seen.
Of course, except for the kinky part of not wearing panties most of the time, the above hardly relates to any kind of kink. That does not mean that there is no such thing as a panties kink or fetish. This is what Wikipedia says about it:
Underwear fetishism is a sexual fetishism relating to undergarments, and refers to the sexual excitement which some people experience from observing or handling certain types of underwear. Some people experience sexual excitement from wearing certain types of underwear. Other people experience sexual excitement when observing or handling certain types of underwear worn by another, or watching somebody putting underwear on, or taking it off. As well as this, other people experience sexual excitement from printed or electronic material which includes underwear.
Underwear fetishism is not considered as paraphilia unless it causes distress or serious problems for the person or those associated with him or her.
Panty fetishism is a paraphilia in which one eroticizes panties (or similar styles of underwear).
Fetishistic behavior can involve sharing printed or electronic material depicting exposure of panties, usually of a softcore nature, or direct sight and physical contact with the panties.
Some individuals have a paraphilia for a specific type of panty. For example, a common subclass of panty fetishism are panties that show the exposed buttocks (i.e. thongs and g-strings). Further, some individuals have the opposite preference, and are attracted to panties that cover the buttocks.
There are two sentences from these quotes I want to highlight.
“Some people experience sexual excitement from wearing certain types of underwear.”
Even when I wear sexy panties, I do not feel any kind of sexual excitement. However, knowing that I am NOT wearing any panties certainly makes me feel sexy, sometimes excited and always naughty.
“As well as this, other people experience sexual excitement from printed or electronic material which includes underwear.”
Sexual excitement from printed or electronic material which includes underwear? Oh yes! I love seeing a photo of a woman wearing sexy panties. But I love it even more to share photos of myself and my sexy panties. I have quite a collection of Victoria Secret panties with words printed on them and I loved showing those off in different posts on my blog. And of course, specially for this post, I have asked Master T to make some more photos of me in some of my brightly colored panties. I guess that in itself, is a kink – to one to show off the panties I have in my drawers, even though I rarely wear them!
So, to answer Jade’s questions in the last paragraph of her post:
Do you have a panty fetish?
No, I don’t think I have.
Do certain panties signify certain things to you/about you?
Nope, I just grab a basic pair of panties when I want to wear panties. If I grab anything other than a basic pair, it’s just because at that moment I was in the mood to wear the specific color and not because it signifies certain things to or about me.
If you are in a D/s relationship, do you have or do you impose rules about the wearing of panties?
I have specific rules about the wearing of panties, or rather, the not wearing of them. One of my standing orders is that I am not allowed to wear any underwear on a Sunday.
Are panties even kinky, or just another piece of clothing – sure, they can be sexy, but kinky?
To me, panties are just sexy, when and if I wear them. I guess as for panties, my kink should be called exhibitionism as I love to show them off in photos, such as below. Hope you enjoy!
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