30 Days of Submission: Day 4

Continued from… Day 3

Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you?

I have never and will never switch into a dominant role at any time in our relationship. I have no desire at all to dominate anyone, least of all my Husband. There is not one part of a switch in me. I certainly am 100% submissive.

Have I ever thought about dominating anyone? Yes, of course I have. I read many blogs and some of those I follow are of submissive men. Or of women who are switches. I think it’s only human to try and imagine yourself in another role, so yes, I have wondered how it would be to be a Domme or to occasionally switch and be the one who gives the orders or ‘demand’ submission. And you know what? Every time I try to picture myself as a Domme, I have to giggle. That is just so not me!

I have thought about how it should be to switch with Master T. and to dominate Him. Other than that I cannot picture Him in a submissive role for even one second, I cannot picture myself telling Him that He should perform a task, or get on His knees in front of me or giving Him any kind of order. I will not be able to get the words pass my lips. Damn, I might not even be able to properly form the thought.

Also, I have wondered how it would be to have a female friend which I can dominate. Yet again, no matter which female I imagine in that position, I cannot imagine myself giving her any kind of command and expecting her to submit to my wishes. I think that if I would try, I would giggle all through it and that is not very ‘dommy’, right? What I can imagine is to be dominated by both my Husband and a woman…

To be continued… Day 5

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2 thoughts on “30 Days of Submission: Day 4

  1. Master H says:

    I have a follow up question for you. If Master T wanted you to Domme someone, how would you feel and react to it?

    • That is quite a fair question, but after debating for some time, I just do not have an answer for you. Why? Because I know that Master t. would never expect me to Domme anyone.
      Thanks for your reply 🙂

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